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    A goodness that could bring you to your knees ~ In memory of my father

    Louis Brood of Mount Laurel, NJ passed away at home on February 1, 2021, surrounded by his loving family with the song “Danny Boy” playing and a kitty curled against him. Lou…

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    February 2, 2021 by elizabethgracewolf
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    His Love Defies Possibility

    You could put a piece of dry toast in front of him and tell him it was dinner, and he would tell you it was beautiful and thank you a thousand times.…

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    June 21, 2020 by elizabethgracewolf
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    Reason to Hope

    I wrote the following caregiver narrative after being invited to share my story during the Reason To Hope breakfast hosted by my local chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association on March 28, 2019.…

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    April 13, 2019 by elizabethgracewolf
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    A Timeless Blur

    February 10th. My mother has been dead for a year. We all went for lunch this afternoon to one of her and Dad’s favorite places. When our check came my sister suggested…

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    February 12, 2018 by elizabethgracewolf
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    Terrible Grace

    I feel as if I’ve swallowed a pail of glass shards looking between these photos, trying desperately in my mind to piece back together the last 7 years. Alzheimer’s disease bestowed a…

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    September 21, 2017 by elizabethgracewolf
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    If Dying Sounds Like Singing

    Momma had another seizure this morning following 2 days of inconsolable, raving hallucinations. She’s been under hospice care the past 2 months and, until this event, had been showing signs of improvement…

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    July 7, 2016 by elizabethgracewolf
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    A Pause As Long As Forever

    Dad tried telling me the other day that Momma was due for some medical appointments. He assured me this with such clarity and conviction, I believed for a fleeting moment that time…

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    January 26, 2016 by elizabethgracewolf
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    They Never Told Me She Would Forget How to Sleep

    It is hard to describe the early days of an Alzheimer’s sentence. A gentle fog rolls in and lingers for a while, deepening ever so gradually until one day you wake in…

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    October 29, 2015 by elizabethgracewolf
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    And will remember it to her

    The house is quiet but for the spring birds singing above the distant and continuous sigh of the highway. Momma’s bedroom door is ajar and I enter to find her lying so…

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    October 20, 2015 by elizabethgracewolf
  • Reflections

    The Longest Day

    I looked back into my journal from this day last year. My mother had been dead for just over 4 months and I was still thrashing beneath the weight of my grief.…

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    June 22, 2018 by elizabethgracewolf
  • Reflections

    Tapestry: Trailing threads into the other world…

    Ever since they were boys, my father and his brother Sam worked side-by-side 6 days a week running the family upholstery shop. A. Brood & Sons. That store was the lifeblood of…

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    April 30, 2018 by elizabethgracewolf
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    Waiting to Wreathe Me Into Believing

    Last Christmas I poured my heart into finding us the most beautiful wreath. It was our only decoration that year and all I could bear as I witnessed my mother slowly dying.…

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    December 20, 2017 by elizabethgracewolf
  • Vignettes

    Be My Love

    Dad and I both woke up irritable this morning. He wasn’t interested in his breakfast and I always feel a little anxiety when this happens as I watch him push the muffin…

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    July 13, 2017 by elizabethgracewolf
  • Reflections

    Dance Your Heart Out

    Today I am celebrating my first birthday without my momma. There are so many things I want to tell you about the last 3 months but for now I’ll keep it simple – I…

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    May 5, 2017 by elizabethgracewolf
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Elizabeth Grace Wolf

In 2010 my mother and father were both diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease within four months of each other. This is a glimpse of our journey...

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